Emma Kaywin, a Brooklyn-based sexual health writer and activist, is here to calm your nerves and answer your questions. Q: My boyfriend has been talking to me about trying anal sex. I'm open to the idea, but I want to know more about it first. Like, do we need to use a condom if we're monogamous, or can I get infections if I don't?
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We live in an ass-obsessed culture. Entire careers have been built on them. The thing is, the backdoor typically has a tighter guest list than the main entrance. And with good reason! Turning that one-way alley into a two-way street is an act of trust. Hang out on the porch first Even if your partner agrees ahead of time that the butt is metaphorically and perhaps literally on the table, treat it like you would any other sexual encounter.
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If you're curious about anal sex, you're far from alone. It may seem taboo, but behind closed doors, it turns out that more than 1 in 3 women ages 19 to 44 have tried anal sex at least once, according to a survey published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine. That said, it's probably not a regular Saturday night thing.
As with any position, there are some challenges to bottoming effectively. And like any sexual encounter, communication is key to avoiding hurt feelings, not to mention physical pain. It should be a delight for everyone involved, and if you check out them.